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Wednesday, November 5, 2008Somehow my language can't flow as freely today as it seems to there are times when i suffer from mental blockage and i seriously hate this period.So pardon this entry of mine and hopefully my free-flowing blogs will come back soon. In life, we meet lots of people. Some, became your friends, others are just mere acquaintances. Being humans, we are always on the look out for that "special" someone. Someone who impresses you on first sight, someone who manage to win your heart over time, someone whom you idolised and wishes to catch his/her attention, the list goes on. It takes more then fate to bring 2 people from different works of life together and that's probably one of the most amazing thing that will ever happen to us--- Falling in love. The chemistry, the bond, the feeling one developed for the other just happen naturally it isn't like science where you require a catalyst or reactant for it to start. Humans relationship just occur with the snap of two fingers and before you knew it you are deeply in it. Getting into a relationship is easy. All it takes is for one party to ask "Can you be my partner" and the other party to agree and there we have it--- a new couple. But maintaining it isn't. It takes tons of courage, trust and energy add a bit of sacrifices along the way and that will probably keep you on going for a while. But that isn't enough, feelings and relationship yet again aren't like natural sciences where the results are predictable. In another words, we can't predict what's going to happen in a love life. The person you kissed earlier on or held hands with might be the world to you at that point of time, but when a fight broke up, you pin point his/her every flaws criticises his/her every move. Is that being fair? Is that being radical? Feelings will fade, buttflies will no longer be around, surprises die down, communication breaks down and soon the time spend together will head south but that doesn't mean that the relationship is declining. In econs, we learnt opportunity cost. Meaning you have to give up something to gain another thing. That's exactly the same for relationship. Yes you are losing out on the fun that you guys have had in the past but have you realised the understanding that you guys have developed over the years cannot be superseded. *Pause* I'm really trying very hard to re-organise my thoughts to bring my message across.... Quarrels will break out once in a while, but tell me which couple in the world wouldn't have any arguement. The thing is never ever try to shun away from problems because minor ones will escalate to major problems in future. Neglect, cherish and regret are triplets they don't come altogether but one after another. Initially you will neglect your partner and when everything is over then you start to cherish the time you spent together only to regret not treating him/her better. Why wait for it to hit you? It may seem easier to talk the talk than walk the walk. But put in more effort to show how much you love your better half and you will realised the end results are magical. Talking a stroll aimlessly I look around... Letting the world evolve around me... Everything seems so much clearer to me than before.. I tried to relive to Day 1... The day i saw her beautiful smile... The day i tried holding her hands... Till the day we ended... People around me are stretching their hands... Trying to lend a helping hand... "It's time" i tell myself.. To wake up from this slumber.. To move on from the past... Cherish your love ones before you lose them... With that i end ... Labels: Love cherish regret. Louis froze in time on 11:56 PM
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_______________ My Profile .......... Name: Louis Chin Nicknames: RuK|a Birthday: 31st Jan 1985 School: SIM UOL Horoscope: Aquarius Music
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